gift guide for the last minute gift giver

​Two thousand fifteen, you have been a doozy of a year.  We’ll get into this more later (I know. Get excited.  It’s just what you wanted for Christmas – me harping about the last 365 days) but for now let’s just acknowledge that maybe things didn’t go as planned for you this holiday season.  Perhaps you found yourself a tad bit overwhelmed and a hair underprepared and now you are very close the ‘F it’ stage of holiday cheeriness. Should you find yourself in a similar predicament, here’s a handy gift guide for those of us that are down to the wire.

DIY

Source: knitting

Source: knitting

Chore Coupons

Everyone loves having someone else do the things they would rather not do.  (Ten points if you followed that thought).  Some coupons could be cooking dinner for your takeout junkie, tour guide of a new/infrequently visited neighborhood for your new to the city bud, a night of babysitting for your post-knocked up loved one, and cleaning/organizing a room for your messy bestie.

Dinner + A Show

Two options with this one – you can go all classy and choose a restaurant followed by a show that requires you to sit in a theater (I call dibs as your date if you can manage to find tickets to Hamilton) or you can do my personal favorite of popcorn, favorite candy (if you don’t choose sour patch, you’re dead to me), and some quality streaming.  If you choose the latter, you can spruce it up a bit by wrapping up a jar of popping corn (stove popped > microwave popped) and a bottle of booze. 

Arts + Crafts

Nothing says love like something homemade, right? Right.  For those of us that aren’t too artistically inclined, knitting a scarf is pretty straightforward.  You don’t even need needles.  Also this gives you a reason to plop yourself in front of some Christmas classics all in the name of giving.  If you’re short on time, throw some salt and essential oils in a jar and call it bath salts (1/2 c sea salt + ½ c Epsom salt + ¼ c baking soda + 10 drops of essential oil).   My favorite is lavender - it looks extra pretty if you happen to have some dried lavender to mix in with the salts.  Or if you have a succulent lying around, bedazzle that jar instead and throw a clipping or two in it.  Just be sure to include instructions on how to care for it, i.e. don’t leave it in the closed container.

REDUCE, REUSE, RECYCLE

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The Classics

You know that book sitting on your shelf that you’ve read at least seven times?  The one that’s quoted all up on your social media?  That you enlighten others with its wisdom after one too many drinks?  Write a thoughtful note in it, wrap it up, and gift it to someone you think will appreciate it as much as you.  Embrace its worn cover and dog-eared pages.  These are just signs of love.  Also if anyone questions your motive of gifting a hand-me-down book, just explain to him or her that it’s for Mother Nature.  No one can argue with that.

Refined Apparel

We all have those articles of clothing taking up space in our closets that we swore we would wear.  And by we I mean I but maybe you do too?  As I type this, there is a secondhand Rag & Bone sweater that has never left my closet since it arrived here 3 months ago.  Pieces like these are begging to be packaged up and gifted to someone who will love them properly.  You can even call it vintage and then congratulate yourself for cutting out the middleman.  Look at you being thoughtful and thrifty.

FOOD

Christmas Cookies + Hot Cocoa Mix + Marshmallows

Some crowd-pleasing favorites include Dipped + Crisp Peanut Butter Cookies, Gingerbread Folk, Chocolate Crinkle Cookies, and Snickerdoodles.  You can pair your platter with the ready-made, prepackaged hot cocoa or be all fancy pants and put together your own mix.  You can even do the same with the marshmallows - I have holiday date with this recipe.

Tea + Honey + Biscuits

I came across this recipe for infused honey and I now have big plans for a couple of special ladies in my life.  Pair it with your favorite tea and biscuits for a complete treat.  If you have some time to twice-bake, you could even skip the biscuits and made some biscotti instead.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS

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Hit the Slopes

If you know of a fellow slalom aficionado, perhaps someone you would even want to snuggle up next to after a day on the slopes, a lift ticket is the perfect gift.  This can be a pricy gift, so consider hitting up smaller mountains.  For example, a day at Killington is $94 but around the corner at Pico it’s only $72 (ha, I know… only).  Be sure to claim your student discount should that apply to you – 15% off is no joke.

Daytripper

There are numerous hiking trails within an hour or two train ride of NYC that are practically begging to be explored.  Create an itinerary complete with trail map and  mix.  If you need some trail suggestions, check out our previous trips or pretty much anything from this dude

Boulders + Booze

Ideally, you would have your own gear and head out into the woods to scramble up some rocks and follow it up with some congratulatory drinks at a local bar or at the very least a swig from your flask.   In case the cooler temps and damp weather have you wishing for something indoors, there are a multitude of climbing gyms to visit with gear to rent.  Chances are beer can be found nearby.  I recommend Brooklyn Boulders followed by a cold one at Threes Brewing.

Merry Christmas, folks! 

notes:

you may notice an abundance of jars being used throughout this post.  maybe you have a collection of weck/ball/mason jars in your home or you can be savvy and pull that tomato sauce jar out of your recycling.  give it a good scrubbing before gifting it though – no one likes the tacky glue residue.  no one.

need more gift ideas? check out last year’s guide here.  or check out our pinterest if you prefer to visually peruse.

thankful in new york city

Forward: I intended to write this post a month ago. Or a year and a month ago, when my family came to spend Thanksgiving in New York City and I was going to share all the things you should do. The thing is, I got caught up doing them. And then it was Christmas, and there are so many Top 5 Lists of Best Things To Do fighting for 10 seconds of your eyeballs’ time all over the internet, and I didn’t know if the world neeeeeded another. So, of course, I planned to do it this year (since I knew all the things you should do), and I have alas failed again. Meg has been holding down the Lupine fort (I’m very grateful—even though she’s super busy) while I’ve been in a transition the past few months taking on some more clients and work projects. I’m thankful for the work and the opportunities, but when you work in social media and creating online content, I’ve been a little adverse to wanting to spend more time on the internet or in front of a screen in my downtime. I’ve had some Lupine adventures and many many thoughts (I have all the feelings), and I’m hoping to start sharing those again here over the next few months. Finding balance is key— and Lupine is a kind, peaceful, inspired sharing space— not our jobs. (maybe someday? #dreams) So for some catch up and that Thanksgiving post… 

This year I created my own Thanksgiving in New York City, deciding to see my family at Christmas. Last year we checked NYC Thanksgiving off our #FreemanAdventure bucket list and drank hot cider at the Macy’s Parade on the Upper Westside in the rain, saw the balloons being blown up the day before at the Museum of Natural History, gazed at all of the holiday windows on 5th Avenue, strolled the Christmas markets in Union Square, walked the Highline, ate at our favorite spots, and of course saw a few Broadway shows. (support live theatre people!!) Unfortunately it was cold and rainy most of the time, but we enjoyed it anyways…it’s hard for NYC to NOT be magical during the holidays.

fam on highline

A year later, of course the weather was unseasonably warm, and they are not here to do all of the things! Ha! Instead, I slept in, hopped to my couch at 9am to watch all of the Broadway performances at the top of the Macy’s parade in my pajamas. My boyfriend and I slowly got ourselves out of the house and biked/skated over a few avenues and caught the end of the parade as it headed down 6th Ave from Central Park. This is the way to do it— performances on TV at home, and then the last few balloons in person. Quite a few people who had probably been lined up since 6am were heading out by the time we rolled up around 10:45, and it was such a chill crowd. And 20 minutes later, Santa rolls by, and we have the streets to ourselves, so we decided to head up into Central Park.

The day couldn’t have been more perfect, what all of the tourists could only have imagined New York City to be in the Fall… the sun was out, the colors were vibrant, and the leaves were slowly floating down as we moved through the park. There wasn’t a person without a smile on. We cheered during “showtime” in front of the bandshell, laid in the grass and looked up into the sky, and grinned at the local sax player- he just makes my heart so happy. We picked up a few last minute ingredients on our way back home to make some family favorites, cooked the rest of the afternoon, watched holiday movies, had friends stop by, and of course ate way too much. (you HAVE to.) The day was so surprisingly calm and savory. Thanksgiving was different than last year, but I’m still grateful for both. Did I mention I woke up to a small real Christmas tree in my apartment my boyfriend threw in the back of an Uber with a Radio City Christmas Spectacular santa hat on top several nights before? 

Moral: Celebrate Thanksgiving? Eat food with those you love?

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my little christmas tree

Today marks a year since a small/giant miracle happened. I’ve officially been in my own apartment that I won in the NYC Housing Lottery for an entire year…ahhhh. I think it took about 9 of those months for me to actually believe they weren’t going to call and say, “Ooops! We made a mistake!” or “You forgot to do XXX so unfortunately…” and kick me out. I started to settle in and create a new home and new season of life of my own. I finished off my year of being #twentyGREAT and turned #twentyFINE at the beginning of December. I met my boyfriend in the Village the night before my birthday and we went to a bar hidden on top of a Five Guys where my friends surprised me with jazz hands, smiling hearts, and pink cupcakes. I’ll tell you, it’s really awesome to have a group of friends that know you and love you. That’s what we all actually want— to be known. And loved. Really loved, because they actually know you. Not just love the idea of you or what you often pretend to be. It’s rare to find. And it’s a lot of work, and long nights, and desperate phone calls, and waiting rooms, and bottles of wine, but it’s oh so worth it. Your tribe is the best thing you can invest in. And I’m so thankful for this intimate community I have; it’s what makes my life rich. 

surprise birthday #twentyfine

Each year I choose a word or a mantra to focus on - to heal, to be happy, to be free, to go do all of the things - and I’m thinking #twentyFINE will be a year of action. A year of creating and fulfilling all of these plans and dreams and wishes we keep talking about. I follow-through on ideas for my clients and work projects, and I’m working on building a creative lifestyle where I also have just as much (if not more) creative energy and focus to invest in my own work. I have too many ideas that I haven’t followed-through on; what am I waiting for? I’ve spent some time away from the dance community to hear my own thoughts instead of just following the herds. So, now that I’ve found some clarity and rejuvenation, it’s time to do something with it. #twentyFINE (like a glass of wine) = to CREATE. Create art, dances, stories, relationships, community, experiences, journeys that I believe in. Ones that matter. 

birthday friends
birthday friends kiss
birthday #twentyfine

Andddd I just spent the last two weeks in the Swiss Alps and German Christmas Markets…so let the games begin! (don’t worry, you will be flooded with all of the german-austrian-swiss stories very soon. hint: it’s true, the hills ARE alive.)

Let's kick Christmas ass, shall we? 

And one last parting gift from the goddess Cheryl Strayed:

Stop worrying about whether you’re fat. You’re not fat. Or, rather, you’re sometimes a little bit fat, but who gives a shit. There’s nothing more boring and fruitless and than a woman lamenting the fact that her stomach is round. Feed yourself. Literally. The sort of people worthy of your love will love you more for this.

Happy Holidays!

diy christmas project

I finally got around last week to completing a Christmas project that I intended on making last year. Better late than never, right? It made for a good surprise and it was a lovely distraction while I procrastinated packing and purging my old apartment.

I present to you: our girly getaway!

girly getawayy
girlygetaway

Two summers ago, the three of us took a #girlygetaway for 36 hours. All Caitlyn said she wanted for her birthday was to escape somewhere (!!!don't we all!!!), and we were all like fine. Sign me up. It's stupid that you have to pick a date 6 weeks into the future to plan 36 hours out of the city! Our lives get a hold of our calendars and we wanted to be intentional about getting some time together and seeing the ocean that heals all! We headed to Ocean Beach on Fire Island and had quite a lot of adventures in 36 hours including: getting a flat tire in the middle of the queensboro bridge in 98 degree heat, witnessing the preparations for a beach wedding proposal, getting caught in an island blackout, running into the same newly engaged couple in a bar in that blackout... oh, and getting sunburned. In the middle of all of that somewhere, we had a freeing superhero moment on the beach; an impromptu iPhone photo shoot where we acted the only kind of crazy you can be around the best of friends. We were so free.

I took a screenshot of some of these crazy photos and put it on Instagram (see above), and these two have always said they wished they had a big version of this to walk by in their homes to make them instantly smile on a gray day. (Sign me up again!) 

I knew I couldn't blow the Instagram image up, because the quality would be too low. Instead, I got each individual image and printed it. I ordered minisquares from Social Print Studio; it was $15 for a set of 48, which worked out perfectly for me, as I needed 16 for each frame! (They delivered unbelievably quick too!)  I picked up some square picture frames at a Christmas Tree Shop (like a JoAnn's for us Southern folk) that had a canvas of a golfer inside. They were on clearance for about under $5 each, so I swiped up three of them, one for each of us. I couldn't make one for them and not for me too! I knew if I went to buy picture frames, I'd have to pay wayyyy more, which is silly. I'd either take Mr. Golfer out and lay him to rest or figure out something to do with him.

First, I organized the prints into the order they would appear in the frame. I may have put numbers on the back of them, because I'm a nerd and it could get confusing. I took apart the frames, weaseled my way inside, and realized I needed something to mount all these photos on. So, I removed the canvas, painted it white (Bye Mr. Golfer! It's true, I used you for your house), and stuck the photos on top! You could use heavy tape to do this or decoupage, depending on the frame you find and what you're mounting your photos on. I made sure the seal the back of the frame securely so we wouldn't lose anyone. 

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diy golfer
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Voila! The girls loved them. I hope they continue to make us smile throughout the winter, that giddy sort of smile, and remember our next DIY summer getaway could be right around the corner!

What can you make the celebrate a travel memory that will also inspire  you to plan your next adventure? I think what I loved about this project was that it wasn't perfect- there isn't a perfect DIY formula, lo siento. Truly do-it-yourself. I didn't even paint properly in the lines. Find a vision, and find a way to blow it up and frame it. Happy Holidays!

holiday gift guide for the wanderluster

In case you're still in need of some holiday gifts after Black Friday, Small Business Saturday, Cyber Monday, and Giving Tuesday... (So many opportunities to buy people! How American) here are some ideas we've come up with for those adventure seekers out there!

1. PASS TO BROOKLYN BOULDERS. This may be our new happy place. Since we're in the city the majority of the winter instead of out on the open road hiking huge rocks, this indoor rock climbing community was a great find. We signed up for the Rope Course last week and have since been hooked. (It all starts with trust falls...what a team-building venture...) It's got an amazing vibe with colorful graffiti and lots of nooks and crannies to explore, so you never feel like it was crowded (although we were warned it would be different on Saturday/Sundays). With the Lumineers and Jose Gonzalez lingering in the background, I never thought I would feel so zen dangling by one hand from the ceiling with a rope hooked to me. 

bk boulders ropes

PS we found all the hot males in the city of new york. SSSHhhhhhh. For multiple reasons, this experience would be a great gift for your wanderlusty-but-stuck-in-the-city friend. They are having a HOLIDAY SALE too. 

bk boulders sale

2. A WARM HANDMADE ITEM FROM THE MARKET. Something warm, cuddly, handmade, and Fair Trade from a holiday market is always a great gift. My mom got me this Nirvana Designs hat from The Union Square Holiday Market over Thanksgiving. It's not only unique and VERY WARM, but the purchase of this hat supports women in Nepal. (kissy face for free.)

warm lupiney hat

3. HIKING GEAR. There's all sorts of accessories needed for upcoming adventures, whether it's new boots, ice cleats, water bottles, warm light-weight layers, or an actual tent. We'd suggest this REI backpack and this. It's lightweight and perfect for hiking, running, and staying hydrated. Meg's gotten a lot of use out of it in a few short months, as you can see in one of our last days of summer on Bear Mountain

4. WANDERLUSTY DREAMY BOOKS. Let's face it- reading about other people's adventures is escapism at it's BEST. (When you're not hanging out with us here of course.) These are some of our favorite reads this year during those drudgingly cold morning commute rides to work when you'd rather have a backpack with sunscreen in it than your computer and work notes. You may not be able to splurge on flights just yet (hint: keep reading), but these will give you the time to dream up where you want to go next and inspiration to start saving those pennies! 

lost girls book

The Lost Girls. Three friends quitting their workaholic jobs in NYC around their 28th birthdays to travel the world for a year...not relatable. At all.

wild book

WILD. Cheryl Strayed's memoir of impulsively leaving everything she knows at 26 to hike the Pacific Coast Trail solo without much training or experience. Women foraging their own trail & feeling their feelings...also completely unrelatable. 

5. GOPRO. I'm obsessed with mine. Not a prime filmmaker YET, but it's a fun toy to be able to take with you on ANY adventure and not have to worry about dropping it or getting it wet. 

go pro canyon
gopro waterproof

6. DIY DAY OUT OF THE CITY. We are alllll about this. And this gift can be on ANY budget! Exploring a small town on the coast like Isle au Haute, Maine or a new place in the city (how very lupine of you) or that massive roadtrip in the Southwest... (we've got ya there too) to somewhere unseen and unheard of (please share!). The uncharted territory is the best. Experiences should not be bound by a price tag! Check out how far you can get on public transit, where the local campsites are, and pack up that backpack! 

bear mountain planning

7. PLANE TICKETS. And of course this is the ultimate gift for any globetrotting wanderluster if you're ready for the big one!! Plane tickets to a bucket-list destination would be AMAZING. You can get us a pair for Iceland, thank you. (So thoughtful!) 

plane wings

So, what's it going to be? What are you asking for for the holidays? And more importantly, what are you GIVING?